The raison d'etre... 

Hi seb, I came (or cumm!) across your website a few days ago. It's certainly fun and entertaining. Thank goodness for people like you who provide some cheeky and unconventional revelations to brighten our lives! Do people really do the things they say they do??? Well, if they do, I hope they wash their hands afterwards, um? Anyway, the purpose of this email is to ask you whether you can make the various topics a bit more accessible. I've forgot how I located your site - I think I was looking for erotic stories - and I accessed a page on your site with story headings with percentage, I think, beside them. When I clicked on them I could read the stories. But when I tried to access the page again later, I couldn't and spent nearly an hour trying to find it with no success. Your site is clever in a way - perhaps too clever? Would you be better to have a Home Page with click-ons to enable viewers to go to whichever subject they wanted to view? At the moment, to read the stories, viewers seem to have to click on a picture. But what if a viewer is interested in a particular topic? They wouldn't know what story lay behind the picture until they clicked it - and it might not be a story they'd want to read. That's why I found the original page so useful because it gave an indication of what a story is about. Another difficult-to-use feature of your website is the pages where viewers can leave messages and comments. I don't understand what some of the abbreviations mean. I tried to leave a comment but, although I filled in all the required fields, it couldn't be sent because it stated some field(s) was/were missing. How frustrating! The *raison d'etre (sorry about the high-flown language!) of your website seems to be oral sex (and anal sex to a lesser extent) but, with regard to the former I was wondering whether it might be a good ideal (and an useful feature for your viewers) to have a more explicit 'cocks & suckers' page for those who want to suck and those who want to be sucked? (i.e. a page that enables the two to be brought together for their mutual enjoyment and satisfaction). Scotbiker (the wrestling website), for example, has a section that enables those who want to wrestle to contact each other. I know that your message/comments pages do this to some extent but a specific area or page might be better - what do you think? These are just my observations and opinions as a new viewer. I'm aware that running a website like yours takes time and cash and I - like a lot more, I sure - would like to thank you for providing it, Bye! Carl

Seb Cox Replies : Carl, many thanks for your email. The raison d'etre of my webshite is sacred prostitution. I am also a collector of sexual knowledge. I do hope at some stage to publish some of that knowledge in a book. But I agree I am not a website designer. Well at least there is one page on my website that you'll always be able to find, this one. A big hug 4 u....

P.S. raison d'etre, roughly translated from french to english, "the claimed reason for the existence of something or someone; the purpose of something or someone".

frenum or frenulum / spiritually spanked / the pleasure of happiness / two scally labourers