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I don't have a monster but know that what hangs between my legs is larger than the accepted average. Am I pleased? Of course. Does it affect my masculinity?  Of course. A penis, any man's penis is an aspect of his masculinity. However, probably what we are really interested in is the effect of penis size on self-esteem. When a man checks our every penis he sees and compares it with what he sees when he looks in a mirror. He looks mostly at size -- length and thickness; shape and whether circumcised or not is secondary. It is not far fetched to believe that a man associates the size of his penis with his attractiveness and his prowess as a lover. An, because of the focus in most European culture (and others as well) on sexuality, any man with a larger than the so-called average penis believes he has an advantage in attracting sexual partners. Most women are not really interested in length or girth because after the first couple of inches  beyond the entrance to their vaginas there are no nerve endings. After those couple of inches they feel only pressure. Their orgasms come through clitoral stimulation and that is located just inside the labia and you don't need length nor girth to  drive her wild. Women are more interested in what you do with your penis, not its length. Men, especially homosexual men sometimes become obsessed  by length and girth and some go to elaborate means of increasing both to the delight of those selling  various gadgets and concoctions they "guarantee" will add inches to your willy. Men, in general, have more interest in penis size because it is something you can see, something you can measure, something you can touch, something you can handle, something you can swallow, or something you can insert or have inserted. It has great eye appeal and great tactile appeal to a man.

And just as heterosexual men are fascinated with a woman's breast, a homosexual man is fascinated  with his partners penis (and his own). That men of both persuasions go to the gym to make their bodies conform to what they believe is the "masculine" ideal is not surprising. Even Charles Atlas was idolized as having the perfect male body. Women swooned, not so much because of his build but because they knew if they would be seen with him, they would be the envy of other women. Men didn't swoon but they would cast an eye in his direction and then went home and looked in their mirrors to see how they added up. They wished they had what he had to attract women while women wished they could be seen with him to be the envy of other women. I guess the old saying that Women are from Venus and men are from Mars is more truth than fiction. What's important to men is not necessarily important to women. Conversely, some believe the size of ones balls are a truer sign  of masculinity. Ones balls produce hormones like testosterone, which is what makes you horny, but the body can assimilate just so much. Gorillas have small balls because they are very family oriented and have sex only with the females in their family. Chimps on the other hand are very promiscuous, and have sex with every female they see and also with a lot of males as well.  and have very large balls, producing lots of testosterone and lots of sperm. We as men have fairly large balls . What does that tell you? All this is interesting but it is best not to judge a man by the length or girth of his penis nor the size of his balls. That is only judging you, not him. I suppose what we are talking about here is: a man is masculine if he is attractive, sexually active or successful -- and what he does with what he has is the key Dorji

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