The Biblical Jesus does not condemn homosexuals

I consider myself a gay man but through Reading this site, I see that labels (gay or straight) cause barriers that have no need in today's world. I have had my share of wank buddies and str8 bit on the side. It didn't effect our friendships, and has not hurt anyone. We always new exactly what it was. Just some carnal play between consenting couples, who enjoy sex. Really love this site and hope others see it as it puts things as they are. Sex, labels and fantasies. Explore with care, and you'll be rewarded Anon82

I reckon that everybody is different and that they can decide for themselves how they want to label themselves (if they do!). Sexuality is complex and people don't necessarily fit into neat little boxes. It's fine if you feel like you do, but not everyone does. Life isn't black and white for all of us. One of my favourite things about this site is exactly what you dislike - why should Seb or you or I or anyone speak for others - to tell them who or what they really are? How can anyone say that for anyone else? Who decides what the truth of someone else is? Jamie

"Men do not represent two discrete populations, heterosexual and homosexual. We are not to be divided into sheep and goats. It is a fundamental of taxonomy that nature rarely deals with discrete categories kINSEY

Your site is wonderfully informative. As a college student I hope you do not mind me using it as a reference in a presentation in Psychology. I have found the Kinsey Scale many times, but your bisexuality scale is the first of it's kind that i have ever seen. Bravo! David B

Hello from reading your site it seems clear to me that sex has more to do with energy and desire than sexual orientation. From school we are taught not to much about sex but that it is for procreation. The truth is sex is so much more it is clearly multi-dimensional. Society makes it difficult to realise certain sexual desires and expand our expirences. I myself was intriged by the prostate gland and explored i dont have a direct attraction to men but I enjoy anal sex. Strapons were first then Transexuals some are as beautiful as women. then i tried anal with a man it was intense and also enjoyed getting sucked. I am looking forward to one day coming to you Seb because of the way you talk about rimming prostate massage and fucking. Thanks for all your help and keep the site going its good for all th bi curious confused men out there Shaun

There are only 3 things that you can be 100%. Honest, living and dead. Evertything else is relative to that, even your sexuality. We have no culturally approved scripts for life; we pretty much need to write our own. To write your own script requires a lot of effort and a lot of bollox, and is the kind of hard work that brings just rewards, eventually. You might find the right way for you, and three years latter decide you want to live a different way. You write the script, you get to make the choices, and you get to change your fucking mind. "People who try to belittle others because of their sexuality are really just belittling themselves..." Seb Cox

HOMOFLEXIBLE is an excellent term.  It seems to be the closest match to my own personal feelings.  This is a great web site and full of useful information and entertainment Tommy

100% HETEROSEXUAL is merely a lie, albeit a very promiscuous one Seb Cox

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