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Hi Seb, I used to contact you some years ago and thought maybe you had dissapeared off the scene. I have a problem which is there used to be a guy living next door to me with his girlfriend (they are not English) and the guy has always been friendly and helped me out loads of times with problems etc with my computer and all sorts of other things. He though not his fault (the girlfriends) made the decision quite sudddenly that they were going to split up. When he called me into next door and told me I was upset for him, and gave him a big hug and told him that I would always be there for him as a good friend. Well we have been out on a few times to the pub and had a few meals out too, the thing is now he has met another woman older than himself and I (silly me) have found that I have strong feelings for him, I have told him  - and he has told me that he is straight and not gay, well I always knew this, However this dosent help me as I think about him now more and more and wonder what   he is up to (sexually) and other things with this other woman. I am afraid I am jealous and he knows this too. My thoughts are I should let this go - but its easier said than done I am finding - help please! Any advice would be welcome Seb - Thanks a lot Seb - Sincerely Mike. X

Mike, I think you need to get on with your own sex life, and leave this man to get on with his Seb Cox

Hi Seb,  Just wanted to drop a note. I came across your site one day while surfing bored at work. It was bookmarked immediately and I have revisited many times since. I enjoy the various sections. I love the masculine manner you approach the issue of male sexuality and the sexuality that exists between men, gay or str8. You seem to deal with male sexual hunger in a confident and mature fashion. It has always been my argument that everyone, men and women, should have sex with members of both sexes--preference aside--if for nothing else to experience a different type of body, a different type of pleasure.  I'm jealous. I'd like to be as confident and able as yourself. I'm 32 and going through a sexual awakening. Sex up until now has been mostly in response to someone else´s desires...reactionary. I want to sort this, be more confident and defining in my wants and desires.  I want to learn to be fucked, to receive. The only time I have enjoyed anal sex is when I have been high on coke or X, and boy did I LOVE it, but only when high, and that has been only 4 times in 12 years of gay sex. Would or could you teach me? I have a fantasy of being pounded, big cock, or cocks, mouth, ass, whereever. Not so original I know, but its what I'd like.  I visit your site often, as I said before, and often times I become so horney I have to go for a wank in the office toilet.  I'm in Spain now, but am thinking about a long weekend in London sometime in October. If so I'll make an appointment so you can show me all I was never shown. I have complete confidence in you, your site has sold me, excited me, it's had me in the fucking toilet here at work, wanking!!!  Maybe one day you'll fuck me.... Dave 

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